For starters, below is the "BEFORE" picture of my newly acquired baby: 2003 Chevy Astro AWD with just over 42K on the clock. Bought it from a local mechanic for about half the price on KBB (based on my geographic location and current condition of the vehicle given the trim level). Apparently, he picked it up from a lot in PA and... I found an old "AVIS" sticker on the inside of the drivers door(?!?!). Anyway, the VIN checks out on Carfax and my other independent local mech OK'd the purchase - as long as I was willing to pay for new front brake pads and shocks, plus the usual fluid changes which the seller took care of PLUS gave me a 1000 mile warranty on major components (in writing)!!!
BEFORE...

Anyway, enough on the past. Let's talk FUTURE! So, like I said my objective is to personalize this van without being too "in-your-face" so I'm hoping you guys can guide me in the right direction. I trawled this (and the other) site for member's rides pix last night and was really impressed by the sheer diversity - which reminds me... what's the deal with the other site?
So anyway, here's an interim list of mods I'd like to incorporate in order of importance from most to least. Obviously, this will be done in 2 or 3 phases so any help on where I can get these items (or even get them fitted to my taste) is greatly appreciated:
EXTERIOR
Wheels/Rims (preferably 18" x 9" with a slight negative off-set)
Chrome Bumper Guard/Bull Bar
Chrome Hitch Step plus necessary Tow Hitch
Head Lights plus HID Kit
LED Tail Lights
Painted Spoiler/Wing (very subtle)
Billet Grille
ELECTRICAL
Alarm System with Remote Start
Custom Honk System (double-horn or triple-horn)
Seamless iPod interface
Dual 10" Subwoofer Enclosure with matching Amplifier (will use factory CD player & speakers)
Overhead LCD screen (not too huge - for DVD, Navigation and/or other video signal input like laptop)
INTERIOR
Leather Seats
New Matching Panels
New Carpeting
Acoustic Treatment
MECHANICAL
V8 motor
Custom Exhaust System
I think that about covers it. Thank you in advance, fellow ASVians!